HIV Prevention :: Stripper Fingering


Oct 30, 2014

So here it goes.

April 14th, engaged in fingering stripper and kissing. Nothing else, so no oral or sex. I dont remember having any cuts or anything, but it has been a while i guess. 8 weeks later, come down with sore throat and fever for a few days, which went away on its own. No rash or anything. Took one oraquick home test August 16th, which was negative. Have been obsessing over the sickness at 8 weeks. Was that ARS and should i repeat the oraquick? My anxiety went away after the negative test, but i cant get it out of my head. Have also had sinus issues on and off for a month or so.

Any feedback on the risk would be appreciated. Should i retest or can that be my conclusive test? Does oraquick give false negatives? Have not had any sexual contacts since that episode.

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