I'm 16 year old girl and im really inexperienced :( also i never tried masturbating before. Can someone explain me how to masturbate without losing my virginity / break my hymen. It's really important to be virgin in my culture and also i don't know anything about masturbating. Im really glad if someone explains how to do it detailed.
View 11 RepliesI did not bleed I just had a little drop the next day which scared me at first so I went to the doctors and they said I just tore my Hymen so everything was ok
View 1 RepliesI once masturbated putting my lipgloss and I also inserted my 2 fingers a couple of time and I'm starting to worry if I have lost my virginity or not because I haven't bleed but I am a virgin never had sex before and I never used a tampon in my life. Am I still a virgin will I bleed if I have intercourse with my boyfriend or he will find out that I'm not a virgin?
View 3 RepliesI'm 19 years old and i'm a virgin. A few days back I tried putting my finger into the vagina just to try how it feels like, I just put one whole finger inside and then took it out that's all, there was no bleeding or anything... I know its not something to be worried about but is there a chance that my hymen is broken?!.. I wanna keep my hymen intact until i'm married.. i just wanna know b/c sometimes when hymen breaks there is no blood so that's why I wanna know if it's broken or not..
View 14 RepliesI am 13 and I found that rubbing my clit wasn't pleasing enough. I have always wanted to feel penetration but I am scared to break my hymen cause of pain. Can you tell me how to stick my fingers up there, and how to break my hymen without pain? I don't want to have sex, I don't have access to dildos or anything sexual, just my fingers.
View 14 RepliesI'm just a little worried because i don't know if i have broken my hymen or not. I have never had sex (intercourse) but i had fingered my vagina a couple of times and my whole finger can go inside my vagina. I never moved my finger inside the vagina but i kept putting it in and taking it out slowly (i never did it roughly). It never hurt or bleed or anything. Can anyone please tell me if i still have a hymen or not? And if i don't am i sill a virgin?
View 11 RepliesI live in a culture where we are not suppose to have sex until marriage and masturbation is not acceptable and we have arranged marriages.
the Definition of virginity to people here is intact hymen (I don't agree). I think broke my hymen with a water hose that was a long time ago I didn't even know what a hymen is.
I'm not sure if all guys now look to see if she is a virgin but there is still honor crimes. the father or brother would kill the girl.
I want to know if I still have my hymen,
How a guy know that the girl still has her hymen if my hymen was broken how to fake my virginity by the way I live in Saudi arabia in the middle east.
I am gonna loose my virginity in very few days to my boyfriend. Can somebody tell me about the changes that i will face after losing it and i have read that after loosing virginity there is a problem of period delays and breast and hips become larger than before and there is a lot of bleeding... is this true? and one more question please is it okay to lose virgin during periods ?
View 6 RepliesI had sex for the first time a week before my period and I had heavy brown discharge the whole time and now It's my first real period day and I'm having a light period but I was on birth control for a month and a half. Should I be worried or is this normal?
View 1 RepliesI am 16 years old and two days ago I lost my virginity. When I got home I saw that my clitoris had swollen up, it's not very big, it's about the size of a pea maybe smaller. There's no colour change and it's only painful when I squeeze it. It just makes me feel self concious and I am scared to have sex with my boyfriend again incase it's painful or if he finds this off putting. I was just wondering if you had any idea what it was and even how I could get rid of it?
View 2 RepliesI'm 18 years old and before a few days we tried to have sex with my boyfriend.Just when he got nearly in he noticed I was bleeding and we didn't continue further more.I started bleeding since that moments and 4 days after. After a week we were trying again but just when we was starting I began bleeding again but this time It felt like my periods and lasted 5 days.The color of the blood was just like periods but I can't go to the doctor and I'm afraid if it's something wrong with me.
View 11 RepliesRecently, my boyfriend and i lost our virginities to each other. Last Friday to be exact. It was 30 seconds long, and he did NOT ejaculate. Then, we had sex again that following Monday. Twice actually. And he did ejaculate. BUT, each and every time he was wearing a condom. And the second time we did it Monday, he put on a new condom instead of going back in with the Semen filled condom. I was supposed to get my period Tuesday. It is now Saturday. My period is 4 days late. I told my mom, and she told me to quit fretting if i used a condom. And that it will come. However, i can't help but be TERRIFIED. Because, sex is sex. And that's how you get pregnant. I've been reading online about periods being late after your first time because it is a change to your body? Is this true? I also have been stressing a lot. Which i know can also delay your period. I am not on the pill. The only birth control we had used were the condoms.
View 14 RepliesA year ago, i was fine to use regular tampons, but now i NEED super ones! it has been this way since i lost virginity a year ago. i'm 18 now, and was 17 at the time. Is this due to losing my virginity or just development changes?
View 1 Replieslost my virginity last week. hurt a little at first and a little bit of blood. Then the second time it hurt more and there was more blood and the next day it stings when i pee. have had sex 4 times now and everytime it hurts more and more and there's a lot more blood. also the pain after is a lot worse and it stings even more when i pee now. What is causing this?
View 4 RepliesI am 18 years old, i lost my virginity to my current boyfriend 3 days ago and i am still bleeding, but the thing is, the hymen did NOT break, it hurt really bad the first time and i started bleeding immediately, there is no pain just quit heavy blood, i am on the pill to, i started them a week ago, i just don't understand why i am bleeding when my hymen was not broken! please help im really worried as it was the first time!
View 6 RepliesI lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago to my boyfriend , which lost it to me also in total ive had sex three times but never finish my boyfriend finished popping my cherry the second time but on our third time when he came out of me i bled a little bit , do i have a problem? & would i stop bleeding?
View 1 RepliesI lost my virginity at valentine's day with my boyfriend without using condom but he is 100% sure he did not put anything in. My period supposed to arrive at 17th February but because i lost my virginity few days before that i think that affected it. But it is 7th March now and i am still not on my period however my belly hurts down at the bottom since 2-3 days (like it always hurts few days before i'm getting my menstruation). I am really scared of that thing which comes before sperm and that contains a small percent of sperm too.
View 2 RepliesI lost my virginity 2 weeks ago with condom. We did it two times the first time he came in the condom the second time he pulled out still wearing a new condom (we switched it out). My last period was on feb 27 and right now its march 29 meaning im 3 days late. Ive been so worried and stressed. Help please why am i late. Did me loosing my virginity delay my period?
View 1 RepliesIt seemed that my period was ending, and later that night I was with my boyfriend. We usually kiss and fool around. I'm a virgin so we don't usually do much. I told him that I had just finished my period. We were messing a bit and told him that I wasn't ready. I didn't feel him in me, but once I got home I saw that I was bleeding a bit. I asked him and he said that only a bit of the tip went in. I have never had sex so I don't know how that would feel. I guess what i'm trying to ask is, if i'm still a virgin.
View 1 RepliesI'm 19 years old and I lost my virginity last Thursday. We did use protection. I am wondering how long it is normal to bleed after losing your virginity. The night I lost it I bleed a little but I wouldn't say it was heavy like a period. It was like this for the next few days but it has continued. Tomorrow is Thursday so it will be a week since I have lost my virginity and I am still noticing some spotting when I go to the bathroom. It doesn't hurt at all to go to the bathroom and I am not feeling any kind of pain. So is it normal to still have some spotting after a week or would you recommend that I go see a doctor?
View 2 RepliesI just lost my virginity tonight, and I have bled an excessive amount of blood. I looked up it, and most sources say light bleeding is normal, but my bleeding is heavy. When I got home I discovered my underwear was covered in blood:/ he wasn't exceptionally huge and we didn't even get to finish. Is this amount of bleeding normal?
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