The thought of surgery down there is bad enough, But I do remember them shaving me for a forceps delivery and when the stitches healed the pain was made worse by the itching from the shaving. I am a rectocele with perineum repair.. will they shave? Am I best to get the area waxed instead?
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I am a 54 year old female who underwent a thoracic, abdominal aneurysm repair surgery 8 months ago. The aneurysm was 5.5 to 5.6 centimetres and essentially the aorta was repaired from my heart to my kidneys. I would like to discuss my recovery. I am still not up to my usual level of energy in that I still have to rest if I have not taken it easy. During the surgery the left side of my ribs were clamped open and I find myself still favouring that side of my body. eg: protecting my ribs with my hands if I am in a crowded area. But, what has really stumped me is a feeling of panic and anxiety. I had imagined that after the aneurysm was repaired that I would feel relieved. I AM most grateful but sometimes I feel dissociated from my body and I feel depressed a lot of the time...which was not a usual occurrence before the surgery. It feels as if for the 18 years that I knew about the aneurysm I lived in a mild state of anxiety as to whether or not it would rupture or if and when I would have major surgery. Now, that it's repaired I feel like I have to learn to live in a different way....kind of like when I was a child and went skating all afternoon and then took off my skates. It felt strange to walk in boots. I know it's a silly analogy but it feels like I have to learn to walk again. Is there anyone else that has felt this panic or does anyone have symptoms of PTSD following their surgery?
I have sort of swollen perineum... There is a cord like firmness. Not too painful but it gets uncomfortable after walking. No pain in urination. No constipation, although it happened after a hard stool!
View 1 RepliesMy husband and I had a rough "session" this morning and we had a bad mishap. my perineum has torn; it is approx 1 to 1 1/2" torn. This has never happened to me and I am quite worried. Its Sunday and my gyn office is not open. It looks deep enough that I may need stitches. I just wanted to know if this has happened to anyone else and if I should purchase liquid band-aid.
View 2 RepliesI have recently discovered scaley feeling small red bumps on my perineum. They can only really be seen when the skin is stretched. They do not itch or hurt, however if i scratch them they bleed. I am really worried that they may be a std! Or could they be Fordyce spots?
View 1 RepliesI have been having this for a while, not really sure when it came about considering I don't look down there too often. Thought it was normal until I took sex ed and saw that girls do not have this. It will sometimes irritate me and itch. I am a virgin, and its highly unlikely this is an STD. I know moles are associated with cancer, and I'm kind of freaking myself out.
View 1 RepliesCan you shave? Can you reach or is that the least of your concern
View 17 RepliesI am now 25wks and just wondering if anyone else is having any difficulty grooming themselves? ? My belly is super huge, but the bending position is so uncomfortable now! What are u all doing about this? I'm beginning to feel self conscious before it gets too outta hand . I don't want my hubby to be grossed out by it lol.
View 11 RepliesI'm just wondering is it okay to shave your butt?
View 1 RepliesI was wondering whether I should shave my pubes and if so how to do it properly ....
View 2 RepliesI'm 18 weeks pregnant and I wanted to know if I can shave my vagina or not anymore ??
View 13 RepliesIt is near impossible to shave my hoo ha these days. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions? ? I know this is probably a TMI question
View 9 RepliesSo about a month ago I started getting these bumps on my vaginal lips (around 2-3). It started happening around when I had shaved my bikini line down there, but they were not going away even after all of my hair had grown back so I decided to make an apt. with my Gynecologist. She told me it was because of the razor I had used when shaving that one time and that they would go away. A few weeks have past and those bumps did in fact go away, however a new, and much larger bump is on my lip again. This time it is harder and that worries me. I also did not shave since the first time these bumps started occurring so it makes me think that it is something other than just shaving that is causing these bumps. I read that many people simply get pimples down there and that is what I thought this bump was beginning to be but it is a lot harder than a pimple would be and more sore. I am not sexually active. I have not been in over a year so I am sure that these bumps aren't a result of that.
View 1 RepliesI shaved and I thought it felt different shaving this time (I usually always shave) and that night I could barely sleep because I was in so much pain and then the next day and since then I've had blisters appearing on my vagina that hurt so much I can barely sleep or walk and I'll have sharp shooting pains, I've honestly never experienced this much pain in my life. I have a boyfriend and I asked him about it he's the only guy I've ever slept with and he hasn't slept with any other girls and when I got with him he got tested and was clear so it can't be an sti surely?
View 7 RepliesI am 17 years old and have chicken pox. There's nothing unusual although I do have a couple on my vagina. Is it possible I still shave down there as I'd like to see what's going on?
View 1 RepliesMy first time shaving my lady parts. What's the best way to shave the soft skin near the vagina?
View 6 RepliesI had this benign smooth small-ish bump on my nose for around two years, then around october time last year my nose got very dry and it kind of scraped/came off. It bled a little but it didn't seem to be full of blood, maybe just a clear fluid. It never bothered me up until it came off. I was really happy because i thought it had gone. But then it started to come back. it came back even WORSE! it got very red, formed an uneven texture and still hasn't disappeared and we are in March. I have been to a doctor, who prescribed me acne medication, which just irritated it. Then i visited a dermatologist who told me i could have a shave biopsy. Its not cancerous which is good. But i am very very self concious about it. It is not a raised red , uneven bump on my nose. If you apply pressure it will stay down for 5 seconds until it comes back again.
I have been weighing up whether i want to go ahead and have a shave biopsy, i am worried about it scarring badly. It isn't very big, it is about 4mm/5mm, but it still is very obvious ( especially to me ). How long do shave biopsies take to heal? could it come back after the biopsy? and how long after the shave biopsy would i have to wait before wearing makeup?
Whose gonna shave my bikini area when i cant see it anymore gotta figure this out bikini waxing when pregnant? i don't want to be Chewbacca when i deliver.
View 6 RepliesI was recently told I have herpes but I want to shave so bad because my pubic hairs are making it more painful! But I'm scared to death to shave because I still have fresh sores. What do I do?
View 9 Replies27 weeks and 3 days. I just had the most biggest work out of my life !! I'm so exhausted! I didn't think I would ever finish shaving, I was so close to quitting lmao
View 16 RepliesWhat should young girls do when they don't want any pubic hair? I understand shaving is not the best option but I don't have another choice because I play volleyball in little spandex and I don't need to be worrying about people seeing anything.
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