Sexual Health :: Bondage Is Ruining My Marriage
Aug 18, 2015
My husband and I have been together for 10 years.. in the beginning I knew he was into bondage and it was the basic stuff (handcuffs, gags and rope). Over the years it has been increasing the type of stuff he wants to do and I have no desire to do it. He wants me to dominate him in the bedroom and some kind of bondage must be incorporated or its not enough for him. It's either all or nothing. If he doesn't get bondage he pouts and ignores me until he does. I feel like he doesn't want me just bondage. I am at a loss as to what to do. We got into huge fight and he gave me an ultimatum it was him or my mom who lived with us. I chose him.. so I gave him an ultimatum it was either me or the bondage. He chose the bondage... I don't want to lose him, we are both unhappy and the only way to make him happy is bondage. I don't think it's me he wants, even though he says he does, but his actions tell me different, he wants bondage.
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I have hardly a couple of months before getting married. I'm 28M and never had sex before. I had masturb a lot..
How can I get prepared for marriage for a healthy sexual behavior.
When I'm having passionate conversation, my P starts oozing out and goes over and over.
I think I am of the type who would ejaculate before sex.
Can someone help me .. to have a healthy sexual life and stuffs to eat.
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My step daughter is getting married I am completely excluded and my husband feels I'm being selfish. How do I change my feelings of constant sadness like break down in tears sadness?
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I'm 19 years old and since having a baby I have suffered with anxiety. Standing in queues makes me feel like I'm going to pass out and even going out on my own worries me. After seeing a psychic a few months ago she told me to go for a smear. Well that set me off worrying even more! Even though everything she told me was wrong that really plays on my mind and it's stopping me from sleeping as even though I have no symptoms in convinced I have cancer! I don't know what to do and I am too embarrassed to talk to partner I case he thinks I'm being silly!
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I had colon cancer in Jan. 2009 and a liver met in early 2012. Surgery for both and last blood work and CT was fine. Since the liver resection in 2012, I suffer from disease of the day! Everything is major in my mind. Doctor has me on Klonopin .5mg. We'd tried Ativan but it lasted for a few hours and the panic was back.
Is there a type of therapy or treatment for someone who is a hypochondriac? My gastro said he believes it PTSD and that it's common after major surgeries and cancers but I hate being like this.
The fears are really stupid. Most people wouldn't even notice the things I go to the walk in clinic for. I sometimes get so bad I go 3 times a week and I can't afford it!
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I have a very bad case of hypochondria and cyberchondria !
I'm 26 years old and my anxiety is worse than ever. I've always been nervous even as a kid went through stages where I wouldn't leave the house because I was going to get eaten by a dog, struck by lightning etc. All very normal things of course! Haha.
So about 6 months ago I started working in a doctors surgery as a receptionist. And out of nowhere I began to have these symptoms and feelings that were all very new to me. And over the last few months I've diagnosed myself with more diseases than I've had hot dinners! I'd go to bed at night and my heart would be pounding and racing as if I'd just ran a marathon where in fact all I was doing was lying still. I ten began to experience pains in my left arm. Which worried me due to the connection between these 2 symptoms. Then eventually I started having the dreaded chest pains. That's it. I had heart disease and I was going to lose my life to a heart attack. This is when my life really went downhill. So I had reassurance from my dr that it was anxiety. Had a few weeks of cbt. Started to feel better. Then my therapist told me she was happy with the way I'd progressed and referred me back to my gp's care. Since stopping my cbt my symptoms have returned with a vengeance and I keep telling myself 'it can't be a coincidence of course they're back because your no longer have reassurance from a therapist' but it isn't helping. I've recently started having globus symptoms which are driving me crazy in thinking my throat is going to physically close up and that I won't be able to breath. Visited my gp who put it down to my GERD which is linked with my anxiety. I guess all I'm trying to ask is if I'm not the only one in this wicked situation. And is it affecting everyone else lives likes it's affecting and ruining mine. Am I the only one who keeps getting reassurance from therapists and GPs and still believe there's something seriously wrong with me?? Just don't want to do anything anymore. Feel like utter s**t all the time (which really isn't like me at all). Some advice also on whether you think me working in a GP's surgery is somehow affecting my health anxiety would be brilliant.
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The thing is I have never ejaculated in my life and being 16 I am worried about it and I do not have that much hair too.Of late I have been pretty depressed of my condition while my friends boast about their manliness.Can someone please tell me what is wrong with me.
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I'm 52 and have low testosterone, I don't mb and I've had two "wet dreams" in the last 6 months. Does anyone know if I am taking too much testosterone?
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I have wet dreams am close to 30 years
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I'm a 42 year old guy, have a skinny build but healthy and young looking for my age.
Every so often, about once every 2-3 months or even twice a month, I have a wet dream or nocturnal emission during sleep. These are usually accompanied by a sexual dream and I always ejaculate in my sleep then wake up soiling my pyjamas. I had my first nocturnal emission when I was almost 16 although the frequency was greater then than what it is now. I don't really mind having wet dreams and apart from making a mess I actually quite enjoy them, but are they still normal in men my age as I thought that usually these episodes petered out after the mid-late 20s or so? I also sometimes have erections in the early hours (morning wood) but have heard that this occurs with guys of all ages. I am free of any STD's etc. as I am very much still a sexual virgin, but I masturbate probably around once a week. Would these things make a difference to me having nocturnal emissions or the frequency of them occurring? Thanks for reading but I just wanted reassurance that I am still sexually healthy!
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I've tried having sex with my boyfriend twice now, and my hymen won't break/ tear. Some people have said theirs tear easily. But we've tried to break it a few times now just by penetration and it just hurts. He says we can "keep trying", but I'd rather not. My parents don't know I'm having sex with him, so I don't want to ask my mom to see an OB GYN to have my hymen cut or anything. I don't know what to do...
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So I've had some itching for a few months, and back in March I was tested negative for STD's. I've noticed some itching again, some days worse than others and some days not at all, and on Tuesday I grabbed a mirror and saw these bumps and just about had a cow. Ive had 2 partners since March and neither of them have ever had an STD. Does this look like something I should be concerned about or is it just sensitive skin/ razor burn??? They're not painful whatsoever and I've never felt burning as if they had cracked open.
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I have had 2 sexual partners this year - one from Feb to September, and then one other one time in October. These signs showed a few weeks later as only one blotch, and now there are several. They are not painful or itchy, just not great to look at.
Any ideas? i would go to a doctor but I fly out of country tomorrow to arrive back on new years so I will go then, but would like to hear opinions til then. CLopsest I have found is early signs of cancer...which is rather worrying...
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I am having the problem of erectile dysfunction, whenever i tried to have sex i ejaculate within seconds of sexual activity even before getting hard most of times, and my whole body starts trembling (i don't know why). I am physically alright and healthy and also i have morning erections almost daily but unable to have sex with partner.. i am very stressed about this issue... kindly please help me what should i do P.S. I think i also have haircut fetish whenever i see girls short haircut i ejaculate with preseminal(pre-cum) fluid but don't get hard..
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Oral sex healthy??
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I wanted to share my experience with you because I was terrified when I first noticed an abnormal bump.
I am a 25 year old male who is in shape and otherwise healthy. I first noticed one small slightly red bump on the right side of my penis, about halfway up the shaft. This happened on the last day (June 1, 2015) of a one-week trip to Orlando, where we had swam in a shallow pool that was also used by children. We also used hotel towels to dry off--of course I dried my genitals with those towels.
The bump was not painful, nor did it itch. My fiancee and I have been monogamous since our relationship started almost three years ago. Both of us tested clean, and neither of us has had any strange bumps before, not even on the rest of our bodies. Therefore, I didn't think anything of it.
The bump persisted, slowly growing larger. The skin surrounding the bump did not turn red; only the bump itself was red. Its diameter stopped growing once it was comparable in size to the tip of a ballpoint pen. In fact, I'd say that's a pretty good description for the way the bump protruded from the skin. I think it stopped growing around June 19, 2015.
At this point, the bump was still red all over, but by gently pinching the skin, I could feel the rest of it deep beneath the surface. Again, it was not sore. I was beginning to get nervous, but I wanted to wait just a little while longer to see what would happen next.
On June 21, 2015, I woke up and the bump had an off-white/light yellow center. The bump was still smooth and dome-shaped. I also noticed the bump was umbilicated. I know that herpes blisters are not hard, are filled with liquid, and usually pop on their own within a few days of forming, but I assumed the worst. After several hours of debating, I became convinced that it was MC. Rather than waiting for the bumps to go away on their own or using topical cures, I concluded that removing it was the best option for me.
Before performing "surgery" on myself, I made sure to have the proper equipment. I went to Walmart and got the following items:
-91% rubbing alcohol
-medical gloves (the core/plug contains the virus, which is highly infectious. Gloves are a must!)
-assorted embroidery needles
-sharp tweezers
-paper towels
-small round waterproof bandages
I chose to get all new tools because I didn't want to use tweezers that my fiance uses on her face
These were my steps:
[1] sterilize the needle and tweezers even though they're new by soaking them in a small cup filled with alcohol (they don't need to soak for long, but I chose to leave them in the cup while preparing my body). I chose to do this all at my desk because I wanted to make sure there was good lighting. Don't forget to sterilize the table/desk and put down a paper towel. You'll probably want to set your tools down at some point.
[2] while the tools are soaking, put some alcohol on a paper towel and clean your penis, testicles, and a good portion of your pubic area. It's better to clean a larger area than what you think you need. Think about the large area the doctors swab when preparing to give you an injection. Be very careful not to get any alcohol in your penis. That would really hurt!
[3] Put the gloves on. Don't touch anything that isn't sterile. I'm paranoid, so I also wiped down the fingertips of the gloves with alcohol. Use the tweezers to get the needle out of the cup. Now comes the fun part...
[4] Gently pinch the skin around the papule so that it is protruding and is as firm as possible. Use the needle to pick at the white part. Do not push the directly down into the papule. Think of it this way: if the papule was a dome sitting on a flat surface, you'd approach with the needle at an angle of ~45 degrees. Don't dig too deep all at once. It is best to puncture the papule several times with a slight !**@! motion. Remember, you're trying to remove a little plug. Once you've opened the papule enough, the pressure of your gentle pinching will probably cause the plug to peek out of the cut. It shouldn't bleed yet.
[5] I didn't use the tweezers to remove the plug. While still wearing the gloves, I used my thumb nails to squeeze out the plug. Almost all of it came out as one piece. It was a little longer than 1/32". I squeezed again, this time a little harder, and a little more came out, along with blood. It will bleed on its own. You have most/all of it out once it bleeds on its own. I gently rolled the skin between my fingers in a motion that resembles the way you test the softness of fabric, just to make sure I couldn't feel anything else beneath the surface.
[6] It stung a little, but I chose to stop the bleeding using a paper towel with alcohol on it. Apply some pressure; it doesn't take too long to stop bleeding.
[7] Put the little circular bandaid on your cut, but be careful not to touch it.
[8] Throw away the paper towels
[9] Clean your tools with alcohol again! Don't just clean the tips of the needle and tweezers. You also touched the grip with dirty fingers
[10] Be VERY careful when removing your gloves. If you've never taken a chemistry/biology lab, I recommend looking up the proper way to remove gloves after working with an infectious substance.
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I have this pimple on my bikini line, it's been there for days doesn't really bother me. I haven't been shaving recently so I think I got it from friction. Doesn't hurt at all or cause pain closed bump red surface with a white head. I would send a picture but I don't know how.

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have these blisters and I'm not sure where they came from or what they are. A week ago I had a yeast infection. I was given Metaspore to help with it. I'm not sure if that is where they came from? They are not sore at all and don't itch. I would never even have known if I did not examine myself every month just to make sure all is good.
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I had a CBC and everything was ok. My platelet were low when counted by the machine (138 (140-400) and good went counted manually (at 191), but my testosterone level were very low .
132 (241-827 ng/dl). I am a 35 yrs, slim , walk alot (5'9, 155lbs)
What can i do? The doctor would like to repeat the test again because it was done late in the afternoon.
I am freaked out to be honest, i had ED last for a few days. i am freaked out of taken an HIV test also.
Do testosterone boosters really work?
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I have noticed that I do not get pre cum anymore. When I have an erection and I pull down the foreskin it hurts. And it hurts when I have sex. What is going on?
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I am 66 and I would guess overweight and I take medication for type 2 diabetes. Lately I feel the need to masturbate and start off, I am erect and I can feel it starting. Then the feeling goes away and I can no longer feel that I will ejaculate and my feeling of wanting to masturbate.
This will even happen when I am with my partner and he tries but again no success.
It is starting to bother me and not sure what is wrong and what I should or could do to change the situation.
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