Sexual Health :: Pain During Sex With Excessive Bleeding
Nov 18, 2013
I am a 43 year old woman who just recently had sex with a much younger man. He had a very large penis. I have not had sex in over 4 years and the sex with him was extremely painful and I bleed excessively and continued spotting for a couple of days. It was bright red and it was everywhere. Now I have been on the Depo provera birth control shot for at least 6 years. And I have not had a period the whole six years. I understand why I bled but not why so much? Was it because of my age? And I believe the pain was due to not have had sex in years. And another thing, it has been a week since we had sex and I constantly feel like I have to pee, which is now a different shade of yellow and I have an abnormal yellow colored discharge. There is no painful urination, no itching, and maybe just a slight smell nothing strong.
What the heck is going on? Did I catch a STI? Do I have a yeast infection may be due to the excessive bleeding? Or is this something that may just go away soon? Could it be due to my age, nearing menopause and the fact that I have not had sex in over 4 years?
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For the past year I have had bleeding during intercourse but never any pain. I have been told I could have endometriosis and or pcos. I have had bacterial diagnosis and uti off and on for years but I think now I'm having a constant infection that won't go away. I've seen different doctors and they don't seem to be concerned about the bleeding and can tell me what's causing it. It's alarming to me because I know it's not normal and shouldn't be happening all the time during intercourse. I have no pain with it and always plenty of lube. Also I just recently had a saline sonogram that showed nothing. Please what else can they do to figure out what's causing this and should I just let it go untreated?
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On a Friday night, I had intercourse with my boyfriend. I noticed pain starting on the right side of my vagina. The next day, the right side was very sore. I went to work, and started having symptoms such as shivering, weakness, nausea, kidney pain, and ovarian pain. I was also suffering from constipation. I went home and felt better besides the vaginal pain on my right side. There was no bleeding. On sunday, I tried to pass stools along when I noticed a little bit of blood from my vagina. It was not coming out on it's own, only when I wiped. The blood wasn't serious. On Monday, the pain from my vagina started to go down, but when I stood up, brown blood/liquid basically squirted out from me. The whole day I had weird liquid just coming out of me. Today(Tuesday), there was more blood when I wiped. Could I have a ruptured cyst or could something have torn inside of me?
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I am 18 years old, sexually active
I have been having intercourse with my boyfriend regularly for the past 5/6 months and we never use any type of protection (yes I know, really bad) we always just make sure he pulls out and he does and everything is just fine. I know that a "safe" time to have sex is during my period due to the fact that the ovule that wasn't fertilized was disposed so that happened. I was around my fourth or fifth day of my period (my normal period lasts 7 days) and he finished inside.. It's happened before so I'm positive there is no problem with that.
When my period finished, I noticed that I have had a lot of discharge and I don't know what it is or why it's happening. It's clear and very watery and sometimes I notice a "different" smell to it, I can't explain it though, it's a bit strong but it's not a completely foul odor either. I believe I should be in my fertile days about know or soon but this has been going on for about 2 weeks now and I'm starting to get worried. Does anyone know what it could be?
Could it be some sort of infection? Or a natural cleansing process? Or something else? Should I worry? Please respond soon as to I am very concerned
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Does anybody else have problems with this? I've been to several gynos over the last decade and nobody seems to want to give me any kind of resolution. I can't take birth control as it gives me extremely high blood pressure and am not willing to risk the hormonal IUD either. Hormonal birth control of any kind is a no for me as I have been on them all. I have an appointment scheduled in the hopes of getting a prescription for a non hormonal blood reducer called Lysteda but I've heard it's expensive and may not be covered by insurance.
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Hi there, I am an 18 y/o female and I have been taking the birth control Kariva since I was 15 for PCOS. About a month ago, I had intercourse with my boyfriend, and afterwards I bled heavily and cramped really bad for a week. I know this bleeding was not my period because I still had a week to go before I took my pills that would start my period. When it was time for me to get my period, I had light bleeding and it ended a day earlier than it should. We used a condom and I take my birth control between 5pm-6pm every night. Does anyone know what could have happened to me? Am I pregnant? I'm just really worried because now I've become bloated, constipated, and I have pain in my lower left and right sides.
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I already had my period this month. Literally comes the 1st of the month. Monday I lost my job and yesterday I had sex with my husband. I haven't noticed any spotting all day until just now. I got up to go to the bathroom and when I wiped there was bright red blood.
Normally when I'm with my husband we are very active and try many positions. His favorite being from behind. Yesterday I noticed that he was hurting me, felt like he was hitting my insides and normally that doesn't happen.
I'm just wondering if it's a normal thing in the sense it has happened to other women and maybe it's just from being a little more active.
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Yesterday, my bf and I had sex. Then a while ago when I was going to pee I had blood in my underwear. I didn't bleed yesterday after we just had sex. What does it mean I rly don't know why. My period ended last week
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I've had an issue for a while concerning painful sex and bleeding after.
This all started after a prolonged hospital stay and antibiotic treatment including several thrush flare ups due to the antibiotics. I've seen two docs who have examined me and ran swabs and found nothing so referred me to psychosexual counselling.
They have said they won't refer me to a gyno.
The issue now is that my lady area has started flaring up and getting really sore now without any physical contact at all. So how can it all be in my head? I understand tensing in anticipation of pain but how can my mind cause inflammation and soreness? I just don't know what to do and this is ruining my life!
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I am 18 and i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. Since my first sex, i am bleeding. It's been 5 days and i am still bleeding. Can anyone help me ? What has happened to me? Is it normal or not?
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so me and my boyfriend had rough sex and it didn't hurt. Then I went to the restroom to pee and I didn't bleed but then 30 minutes later I went again I was bleed kinda a lot and that worries me ! Is it because we had rough sex?
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okay so I am 20 and i lost my virginity a few years ago, but it's been about 9 months since I had sex, Well i've been seeing this guy and the other day we decided to do the deed and I realized he was bigger than anyone I had been with,and we went slow at first but when he pulled out i started bleeding. when he first inserted it it hurt but then well it felt good. its happened both times we have done it. can there be something wrong with me.
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I have been with the same person for a year. For the first 6-7 months I never bled then all of a sudden I started bleeding every time, even when it isn't rough. Instead of getting wet it's bloody now. I've never had a regular period but always have bad cramps around the time I should start my period. I took birth control pills before to help but it never helped. It's really embarrassing to bleed every time and completely ruins the mood.
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Should I be concerned that I'm bleeding for so long after the first time I had sex?
I had sex exactly a week ago and did not bleed until the day after. The blood is bright red and I've been experiencing a lot of cramping too. I'm in the pill and we used a condom so I know I'm not pregnant and it's not time for me to have my period for another week or so.
And top of the constant bleeding I have past 3 small rubbery blood clots...I know disgusting right? But this has never happened before. What's happening? Did I tear something? Should I go to a doctor or just wait?
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I had sex with my husband and after sex I went to clean myself up and noticed very light bleeding on the toilet roll after couple wipes their was nothing there the bleeding stopped, we did do a different sex style which was hurting me so we changed to normal way we do it but I don't know if that's what has caused the light bleeding? Should I be worried?
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I lost my virginity on July 5th & after I did not bleed, most people say I'm supposed to bleed. Today is now July 19th & yesterday July 18th I started spotting blood I'm curious on what this mean should I be freaking out or just calm down it's no biggy?
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I met my boyfriend after 13 days and we made out, actually tried to in a jungle. While we were at it, we saw blood coming out of me and stopped immediately. It could've been rough and I don't get wet easily. I am 30 years old. We have had sex before. Anyhow the same thing happened the second time on the same day, this time we were indoors. However, the third we did it, it was all fine. The next day as well there was no bleeding. I took an emergency contraceptive pill on the third day as we aren't planning for a baby, at least not anytime soon. I am worried and stressed out. I am in love with him, and I know he was a bit scared, if I may say so and it's but natural... Let me know if you need more information.
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I'd like to know what can be the cause of some light bleeding and cramps after arousal.
I am in my late 20s, healthy and I am a virgin. I have no boyfriend and I do NOT masturbate with my hands NOR any kind of toy. Sometimes, when I get aroused, I relax and tighten the pelvic muscles (like kegel exercises) and squeeze/unsqueeze my thighs together. That helps me get some kind of release, although I have no idea if any orgasm is achieved.
Thing is, a couple of hours later I get this light bleeding with fresh colored blood. Not big in quantity, but enough to notice when wiping myself for the next two or three bathroom breaks. It does not appear when I clean myself after playing with the muscles (I do get wet), only later. It does appear after every arousal episode.
And, the more intense the feelings, the bigger the chances I also get cramps later that day or the day after. Even if my period is nowhere near. It hurts.
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I didn't have actual sexual intercourse with my bf, but he rubbed his area on my area, not inside. And it hurt and bled a little when we did this. He is sure that the sperm didn't fall on my vaginal area when he ejaculated.
I had period 5 days after that. But now I am almost 13 days late on my second period. My period is usually 5 to 7 days late most of the time.
Now is it possible that I might be pregnant? and could my hymen be broke after that small amount of bleeding? why could it possibly bleed? I am 22 years old.
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my period hasn't been regular but I've been on the depo shot for about 3 years (I'm not sure if theres correlation). I won't have any blood but after sex there is a little bit of blood, we took a break for a while and there wasn't any spotting or anything but I had sex last night and today there was quite a bit of blood.
it was stretchy, had no odor, but had dark (black even) stringy pieces in it. I'm not sure if I'm feeling any serious pain in my ovaries but I'm really worried about what it could be. The blood is usually stretchy but has never had the stringy black pieces.
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Have had flare ups occasionally for 30 years. Like most people multiple antibiotics never were helpful. A turp at 37 was a mistake. Prostatitis is caused by trauma; injury, cycling, excessive sexual activity, sitting, etc. some or all. For most people particularly younger guys, excessive sexual activity is the cause. This is like a sports injury to the gland, the nerves or the muscles in the area, just plain over use. Limit sexual activity, once a week or less if you can handle it. Eventually the symptoms, burning, frequency, pain, etc. will dissipate on their own after a couple of months things will improve a great deal. If you have irritated it once, remember you can do it again and the symptoms will return. Forget the ED meds till everything calms down and then moderation is likely best.
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