Vagina :: Direct, Strong Clitoral Vibration Lead To Orgasm?
Feb 11, 2014
I had had a lot of trouble orgasming.
One thing I have tried is holding a vibrator on my clitoris. This causes my legs to shake like crazy and I feel like I'm going to scream. It isn't painful, it just feels so strong, and I end up feeling overwhelmed, and pulling it away. I kinda worry I might lose control with screaming and moaning. What I wonder is what would be likely to happen if I continued? Would it lead to a massive orgasm? Or could it do damage to my clitoris?
If I hold the vibrator near my clitoris, such as on my labia or clitoral hood, it just isn't satisfying enough, if I leave it there for ages then it feels kinda good, but it doesn't really lead to any kind of build up, and I want it to be more intense. After about 10 - 15 minutes, my labia just feel numb and uncomfortable.
If it would likely lead to an orgasm to keep it on my clitoris and not pull it away, I wonder if i should use a strap on vibrator or clit-pump with vibrator so that I can keep it on and keep my hands away from it?
Or, what should I do? I'm really frustrated and I really want to be able to have orgasms, particularly given that I will eventually want to be able to enjoy sexual relationships without having to worry that I cannot orgasm.
I'm 25 by the way, a virgin.
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For as long as I can remember I have sexually stimulated myself by using the heel of my foot... it was only on my clitoris. I simply would sit "Indian style" and I would just rub the heel of my foot over my clitoris until I reached orgasm. I did it this way because it was quick and easy to me. It usually only takes me 1-2 minutes. But a part of me wonders if what I am reaching is a real orgasm. I am never wet during it. Anyway, my problem is.. I am 20 and my partner of 2 years is 40. When I am touched in any other way that isn't the way I know, I can't orgasm. We have been together for 2 years and he still can't make me finish.. I know it bothers him, he says it makes him feel like less of a man and has never in his life had that problem before. I am worried that from doing it for so long, 8 years or so, the way I have been.. I have desensitized my clitoris and now I don't know how to orgasm any other way. I have tried to do it on my own multiple times... Every time I am completely aroused and I feel like I am almost about to orgasm.. I can't. The feeling continues but I get stuck at the point of almost orgasming and it is the most uncomfortable feeling that I always have to say, "Stop, I'm done" Because the discomfort becomes unbearable. I just want to know what I should do from here.. if my clitoris is actually desensitized.
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Okay so I'm 18, i lost my V card when i was 15 and well i don't know how to put this but for like the past 2 years every time i have intercourse i bleed and have symptoms of UTI like having to pee every 5 seconds and when i do it trickles, and not being able to hold it, i went to the doctor and they tested me for uti and it came back negative. But i figured it could be tearing, what really worries me is when i masturbate, when i masturbate i just use my vibrator on the clit till orgasm, but every time i do i bleed and it's not like i'm on my period bleeding it's more like spotting and its not bright red more like a red with a hint of brown but u can still see its red, and i have short nails so there's no possible way i could have scratched something. I would go to my doctor but that's like a 2 hour drive, and this has happening for about 2 years.
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I find my energy changes dramatically whereby I can't focus on little things, I adopt an immature attitude to everything in general, and it's as if I am so much more turned on AFTER climaxing than I am beforehand. It is unpleasant to feel unbalanced like this just because of orgasming and I spend the majority of my sexual interest time trying NOT to climax because of how awful I feel afterwards, the actual climax is enjoyable but its the post climax destruction in my life that I have trouble with dealing with emotionally and physically afterwards. Example; this week I have had three near miss car accidents, hit my head and beien cut, fined for texting in the car, and the list goes on....I would consider a clitoral circumcision if only the procedure was legal that is what brought me to this topic searching for clitoral operation?
why isn't it talked about by other woman? I have been aware of this all my life and have tried to refrain from having orgasms just so I don't create the tidal wave afterwards. Is this why the African girls are circumcised at an early age, do they know something that we don't?
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I have always had trouble maintaining a strong erection in certain positions. Lying down and standing up come to mind. I am always strongest when sat upright, or when having sex in the 'bulldog' position. I have always felt this was strange and would love to feel at my fullest in other sexual positions. It helps to push down on the area above and below my penis. Does anyone have any recommendations for maintaining a more full erection? Aside from a cock ring which I have had a bad experience with, I do not 'lift' so I can presume perhaps a lack of testosterone.
I can only remember once in my whole life experiencing a rock hard erection whilst standing, maybe 3 years ago. Maybe I was particularly aroused, I don't know, but never since then. It felt great at that time and I would love to get that way again.
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my vagina doesn't have any symptoms of a disease. I'm a virgin.I'm ALWAYS Wet (&))' it makes me uncomfortable. I Have A strong odor but not one that's
unpleasant just very strong(at least to me) people seem to act normal around me (&))' I don't know if they do it to be nice or because they don't smell
anything.Yet when i put my finger into my vagina there's white discharge.I'm afraid that when i decide to have sex that my boyfriend may try to finger me and he'll be grossed out. Also i'm afraid people smell my "scent" which really makes me feel embarrassed.
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