I'm 17 years old and when i orgasm by clitoral stimulation i bleed from my vagina, the blood is bright red in colour. I'm a virgin so i'm worried that my hymen may have gotten damaged or broken.
View 5 RepliesOkay so I'm 18, i lost my V card when i was 15 and well i don't know how to put this but for like the past 2 years every time i have intercourse i bleed and have symptoms of UTI like having to pee every 5 seconds and when i do it trickles, and not being able to hold it, i went to the doctor and they tested me for uti and it came back negative. But i figured it could be tearing, what really worries me is when i masturbate, when i masturbate i just use my vibrator on the clit till orgasm, but every time i do i bleed and it's not like i'm on my period bleeding it's more like spotting and its not bright red more like a red with a hint of brown but u can still see its red, and i have short nails so there's no possible way i could have scratched something. I would go to my doctor but that's like a 2 hour drive, and this has happening for about 2 years.
View 1 RepliesEverytime i masturbate through clitoral stimulation i bleed. It's not a lot. But i'm worried because i don't know what it is wrong with me. I've been on depo for almost two years could that be the cause?
View 1 RepliesI didn't have actual sexual intercourse with my bf, but he rubbed his area on my area, not inside. And it hurt and bled a little when we did this. He is sure that the sperm didn't fall on my vaginal area when he ejaculated.
I had period 5 days after that. But now I am almost 13 days late on my second period. My period is usually 5 to 7 days late most of the time.
Now is it possible that I might be pregnant? and could my hymen be broke after that small amount of bleeding? why could it possibly bleed? I am 22 years old.
For as long as I can remember I have sexually stimulated myself by using the heel of my foot... it was only on my clitoris. I simply would sit "Indian style" and I would just rub the heel of my foot over my clitoris until I reached orgasm. I did it this way because it was quick and easy to me. It usually only takes me 1-2 minutes. But a part of me wonders if what I am reaching is a real orgasm. I am never wet during it. Anyway, my problem is.. I am 20 and my partner of 2 years is 40. When I am touched in any other way that isn't the way I know, I can't orgasm. We have been together for 2 years and he still can't make me finish.. I know it bothers him, he says it makes him feel like less of a man and has never in his life had that problem before. I am worried that from doing it for so long, 8 years or so, the way I have been.. I have desensitized my clitoris and now I don't know how to orgasm any other way. I have tried to do it on my own multiple times... Every time I am completely aroused and I feel like I am almost about to orgasm.. I can't. The feeling continues but I get stuck at the point of almost orgasming and it is the most uncomfortable feeling that I always have to say, "Stop, I'm done" Because the discomfort becomes unbearable. I just want to know what I should do from here.. if my clitoris is actually desensitized.
View 2 RepliesI find my energy changes dramatically whereby I can't focus on little things, I adopt an immature attitude to everything in general, and it's as if I am so much more turned on AFTER climaxing than I am beforehand. It is unpleasant to feel unbalanced like this just because of orgasming and I spend the majority of my sexual interest time trying NOT to climax because of how awful I feel afterwards, the actual climax is enjoyable but its the post climax destruction in my life that I have trouble with dealing with emotionally and physically afterwards. Example; this week I have had three near miss car accidents, hit my head and beien cut, fined for texting in the car, and the list goes on....I would consider a clitoral circumcision if only the procedure was legal that is what brought me to this topic searching for clitoral operation?
why isn't it talked about by other woman? I have been aware of this all my life and have tried to refrain from having orgasms just so I don't create the tidal wave afterwards. Is this why the African girls are circumcised at an early age, do they know something that we don't?
On 31st, my boyfriend inserted it a little bit without a condom for just 2-3 seconds. He didn't come though and he hardly put 1-2 cm inside. After that he fingered me and we noticed a few blood stains. Initially I thought I was getting my period but it has never been a week early. The blood was bright red the first day and brown gooey the next day. Now I'm really confused if this could mean that my hymen broke or I'm pregnant.
View 1 RepliesI did not bleed I just had a little drop the next day which scared me at first so I went to the doctors and they said I just tore my Hymen so everything was ok
View 1 RepliesI had had a lot of trouble orgasming.
One thing I have tried is holding a vibrator on my clitoris. This causes my legs to shake like crazy and I feel like I'm going to scream. It isn't painful, it just feels so strong, and I end up feeling overwhelmed, and pulling it away. I kinda worry I might lose control with screaming and moaning. What I wonder is what would be likely to happen if I continued? Would it lead to a massive orgasm? Or could it do damage to my clitoris?
If I hold the vibrator near my clitoris, such as on my labia or clitoral hood, it just isn't satisfying enough, if I leave it there for ages then it feels kinda good, but it doesn't really lead to any kind of build up, and I want it to be more intense. After about 10 - 15 minutes, my labia just feel numb and uncomfortable.
If it would likely lead to an orgasm to keep it on my clitoris and not pull it away, I wonder if i should use a strap on vibrator or clit-pump with vibrator so that I can keep it on and keep my hands away from it?
Or, what should I do? I'm really frustrated and I really want to be able to have orgasms, particularly given that I will eventually want to be able to enjoy sexual relationships without having to worry that I cannot orgasm.
I'm 25 by the way, a virgin.
Last week, my boyfriend was fingering me, and I started to bleed a lot for a couple of days. We supposed that the hymen broke. So, I'm wondering if I would bleed again when we have vaginal sex or not.
View 2 RepliesI'm sexually active with my boyfriend who we lost our virginities to. I haven't had another sexual partner and I'm on the depo shot and checked for STDs before each shot. But when I masturbate lately I've noticed I bleed I only rub myself above my clothes. Tonight when I got up I bled very heavily with abdominal pain which has never happened. And I don't start my period until the end of the month. This happens nearly everytime I masturbate just not as heavy bleeding.
View 1 Repliesok so a day ago i ended my period. today i masturbated again whatever. but i only masturbate with my clitoris. after i climaxed however i noticed something wet. it could have been my semen but i usually don't orgasm every time. so i look down and there is a pool of blood. it was everywhere i know its gross. im seriously concerned because i am still a virgin.
View 1 RepliesI am a 24 year old female. 5"3 and 15 stone.
For the last 5 years my periods have been very irregular, at one time I didn't have one for 3 months and assumed I had PCOS. I lost weight and all was back to normal. That was 4 years ago but now for the last 4 months I have had light spotting in between periods which then developed into heavier bleeding and now I have been bleeding for the most part of 4 weeks. I have noticed it is usually brought on after Orgasm (non penetrative). It is always bright red, clotty and I would say a Moderate bleed.
I have been with the same partner for 5 years and we always use protection. I had a smear 8 months ago when the spotting initially started and all was normal. What could this be as it is really getting in the way of my life and I am scared of becoming anemic because of this.
I have developed some facial hair and have real trouble with my weight (which I am now trying to lose) so I just assume it is PCOS but I don't associate PCOS with excessive bleeding, especially for a month straight?
I can't get an appointment with my GP for 3 weeks yet so any advice on what this could be would be very much appreciated.
P.S I have never taken birth control, I am not on any prescription medicine.
My girlfriend and I recently started having sex. She was a virgin. During our first time, I found it a little odd how easily I penetrated her and also that she wasn't in pain and didn't bleed, but I understand that all girls are different and so that's not so unusual.
We'd probably had sex around 6 times or so by last night, and we didn't do anything differently (we had been rather rough before and I had gone all the way in quite easily), and she wasn't in any (or at least very little) pain, but when we finished and turned the lights on she had been bleeding. She does not have her period.
Just sounds like I've broken her hymen but it seems a little unusual that it would have broken so late, when we really hadn't done anything differently this time to what we'd done previously.
I should also bring into the situation the fact that we had both basically just recovered (maybe 95% recovered) from what we had presumed was thrush (symptoms being slightly red/blotchy head of penis beneath foreskin, itchy/sensitive, no discharge as far as I noticed but she said she had experienced it and had had thrush before and it seemed like it).
I suggested the bleeding could have somehow been related to inflammation inside her vagina from the thrush but she insists that she is past the point in healing where inflammation would have been an issue - plus it shouldn't have made her bleed like that anyway.
Ah, I should also point out that it's not a weird STI or anything since she was a virgin and I have only ever been with one other person who was ALSO a virgin, so nothing could really have been passed between us (as far as I know?). I know that STI's can be passed on through oral sex and stuff as well, and my current girlfriend had never done it before me but had given handjobs and had been 'fingered'.
Me and my gf have had sex three times now.
1st was short as she started to bleed so we stopped.(didn't want to get caught and i was quite freaked out by the blood)
2nd time was for a good 3 hours no bleeding and was no pain at all.
3rd time it really really hert her and she was almost in tears and she has been bleeding a little ever since.
I never had sex , what's the remedy that my pennis penetrate properly in her vagina. and what is to be done immediately if we both bleed on first night
View 1 RepliesI have had my uterus and cervix removed 1.5 years ago. My sex drive has increased in a huge way and it's great, but I find that when I'm aroused or when I have an orgasm..amongst the gushing/squirting..Im bleeding as well, and I'm not sure why this is happening. Has anybody else experienced this?
View 1 RepliesI'm 19 and fairly new to sex. I've had sex multiple times, but we mostly just do foreplay kinds of things. I've never had an orgasm, which I've read is normal for my age so I'm not too concerned. Although, when he fingers me I feel like I'm going to pee. I can't relax enough to enjoy it, because I'm terrified of peeing on him. Almost every time he fingers me TONS of liquid comes out. Like a small water balloon has burst. Is that normal even though I didn't orgasm? And last time he fingered me really hard and with 3 fingers and I bled during and after. Should I be worried?
View 1 RepliesI have never had sex and me and my boyfriend are always very careful during any intimacy, but today i experienced bleeding and light pink discharge after orgasm. My period ended 4 days ago, should i be worried?
View 1 RepliesI was having anal sex with my BF and i felt a little discomfort in my ass. when I came everything was normal until blood started to come out of my penis. IT was not mixed in with the semen it came after. Not any pain after and when i peed it didnt have any blood.
Does anyone know what this could be ?
I am not a virgin and when I have sex I dont bleed. BUT when i use a vibrator only on my clit I will bleed after an orgasm. I am not going to a doctor about this and don't have anyone to talk to since I find this to be embarrassing.
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