Husband Can't Cum / Ejaculate Inside Me - Needs Masturbation After Sex
Aug 1, 2012
My husband can't ejaculate during intercourse, which is certainly not helping our desire to have a baby.
He can thrust for up to an hour without showing any signs of ejaculating inside me, by which time I am sore and dry.
He says that he enjoys sexual intercourse with me, but he looks frustrated, and I certainly am, and getting more so by the day. I mean, having an orgasm for the man is normal, yes? Ejaculating inside his partner is supposed to be the natural outcome of sex, yes? The best thing ever?
I want to see and feel him coming inside me, and I certainly don't like the idea he doesn't find it possible to ejaculate when we make love. He also says that he can come with his hand, and indeed he does sometimes finish off sex by ejaculating through masturbation.
But this is all second rate. Does anyone know why a man would not be able to ejaculate during intercourse?
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I ejaculate as soon as I penetrate my partner. It happens very quickly and I really don't know why. The moment my penis start penetrating I ejaculate. I am 28 and this is happening for years now. I tried the desensitizer, but it didn't really work. I do not know what is really the problem and how to fix it.
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I am really turned on with my girlfriend..we didn't have sex..we only make out and touch each other but not inside underpants..only outside (because she doesn't feel comf etc..)...so,when she is rubbing me i feel my penis wet and it's something like an orgasm but its not white sticky semen coming out,its something watery...when i masturbate i ejaculate normally,with orgasm and white sperm...maybe im not stimulated enough because it's outside of the underwear..
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When i sweat now a lot of the time my but smells like ejaculate (the sweat) other people had this but say they have mucus or actual semen coming from their butt i do not pleasure my butt like some of the people who have the actual white liquid, for me it feels like sweat (The liquid). it smells like bleach or ejaculate. i've had this for 7 months and im worried .
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What are the chances of pre-ejaculate causing pregnancy? To be more specific; what are the CHANCES of wiping off precum and then fingering, getting a woman pregnant.
Sometimes, I get precum on my fingers when I'm aroused and then finger my girlfriend. I always wipe it off before I touch my girlfriend of course, usually on my bedsheets or a towel, and most of the time I urinate before hand, even all day before this happens.
Yes, I know precum CAN cause pregnancy. The answers I have gotten vary between "Next to impossible" to "Yeah most likely it will!".
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hello doctor ... i left masturbation ...and i am getting erections ...only for a minute or two ... and even if i try to hold erection i ejaculate .. like premature ejaculation... erections are also weak and ejaculation also is too soon .
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First of all, i have 1 ball, yeah only 1. it's because when babies are born (my mom is a doc, she said so, she knows) their balls fall from their stomach to their place (sorry for my english, it's not my native language, but i hope you will understand) And when i was born, testicle stayed in my stomach, doctors tried to remove it, but they failed so ended up having 1 ball. I recently asked my mom will i be ok with it and will i have children, she said yes.
I have a small penis, maybe 3 inch erect. I really like masturbation, but i can't ejaculate. It feels like after 1 minute of porn i already ejaculated and it's getting soft, if i continue, after 7 minutes i feel the same and it turns completely soft.
I am 160cm overweight (66 kg) I really put a lot effort to lose the fat, but i can't maybe it's genetics, my mom is very fat. I play basketball, lift weights eat healthy food, i tried suggestions from "the truth about six pack" but it ain't helping.
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I know my question may have been asked a million times before but I want to get a first hand assessment of my potential risk with HIV based from the series of events that acquired during that night. I was firm to believe that oral sex is safe - up until I read some articles on the internet. Some websites say it's low-risk. Some say it is moderate risk. I do not know which claim is more true than the other
So how this is my last sexual encounter went:
- So I met guys
- I did brush my teeth lightly.
- We basically did give and receive oral sex. No anal sex was done .
- One of the two guys did finger me.
- The whole act last around 30 - 40 minutes
- he ejaculated 5-10 minutes after through masturbation. He "unleashed" it in my legs or in my chest.
- About a minute or two, I gargled water
- We had a small talk after the deed. I was kind of hesitant to believe that he was negative although that's what he did told me. Aside from that, he told me that what we did was a low-risk activity.
Now for my questions:
- Let' say he was indeed positive, what are the chances of him passing the virus on this one time incident?
- From what I have read over at the internet, saliva has a capability to deactivate the virus once any fluid comes contact to it. Is this accurate? Does brushing one's teeth lessen this saliva's capability?
- Is pre-ejaculate just as infectious as semen or blood?
- Would brushing my teeth before or after the act really create cuts/bleeds deep enough that some pre-ejaculate may come in contact with my bloodstream?
- What about deep throat oral sex. What are the risks say he had pre-ejaculate if I was doing it to him?
- Let's also assume that he had a soaring viral load, will this affect my chances? Again, some websites argue that the higher the VL, the higher the risk one is exposed to.
- What are your thoughts about fingering. Is this safer than say, oral and anal sex?
- where I live we have Rapid ICT for testing. How conclusive is it on 6, 8, 10, 12 weeks of testing? Should I be tested after 12 weeks for it to be definitely conclusive or 12 weeks is more than enough?
I know that the only way to know my status is to get tested. It was only been six weeks since the act happened and my anxiety has been killing me to death regarding this incident. I do not want to be the first person documented to have contracted the disease through oral sex.
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I had a no scalpel vasectomy procedure done on 10/10/14. I have pain in my left testicle when I walk or any pressure at all gets placed on left testicle. I do not feel any pain when I am sitting, but when I first get up and walk I feel pain in testicle and also above testicle on left side. I also have ejaculated 7 times and still have blood in my semen. Should I be worried? My right side is perfectly fine with no pain at all.
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i am 25 yr old. i m getting married next month but the problem is i am not virgin last time i had been physical is about 2yrs n now i am worried coz i m nt virgin dere any solution to this problem...i really need help regarding this if my husband will come to know about all this my life will become hell ...
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I'm 23 weeks pregnant and I'm 30 yrs old. My husband is 35 yrs old and is a truck driver who don't get a lot of sleep. I've become so horny that I want it all the time but my husband is tired all the time and sometimes we can start making love but he gets tired in the middle of it and goes soft(sorry tmi). I love my husband but I have needs too. I just want to crush up a blue pill and put it in his coffee I want it so bad what should I do.
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When were your partners able to feel your little one move? I can't wait for my husband to feel our little girl moving around. I'm 21 weeks now. How far along were you guys?
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I did sex with my husband first time but no bleeding even he felt that something cross away from his penis inside my vagina. he felt that something touch his penis during intercourse. he felt i m virgin and this is true but problem is this no bleeding but i felt pain during my intercourse...
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I am married. I am 25 years old. And my husband 29 years old. Now I am pregnant. But my husband had tinnitus in left ear before 10 years.Then he had done surgery to recover tinnitus. After the surgery, he has hearing loss as the side effect of operation for the left ear. I have a doubt that “ is this type of tinnitus is inherited to our baby and if yes how many percentages will get tinnitus for my baby?” we are very tensed really. Is there any hearing loss problem is inherited to my baby? If yes, how much percent probability get a hearing loss?
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I have noticed it since the first time, and I've just about went through everything to make sure it isn't mine. It's not even necessarily when he cums inside of me. When he ejaculates, period!
It is just kind of a rotten smell. Or like puss when your ears or other piercings are infected? which made me think it could be an infection? I have been tested recently, and nothing, I'm the second person he's ever even had sex with. And it isn't something that just came up out of nowhere. It's just getting bad to where I try to avoid doing it.
Once he goes. If it's on me I clean it right away, if it's inside of me I try to get it out quickly and really clean down there when I shower. He is uncircumcised but it's not his penis that smells.. (Unless it's after we do it or he hasn't showered for a day minimum. Nothing else smells, just down there). When we shower together I see that he does clean it well, he'll even I clean it. Under the foreskin, multiple times until I KNOW that it is clean. And then when he cums after that it really is just his semen.
I don't know whether to ask about it whenever I am at the doctors or just straight up send him to the doctors. I've told him about it, even asked when he plans to get a prostate exam to just throw it out there. He knows but I guess forgets about it.
I am clean, no infections, have been tested. And it's not when our fluids mix. It's for sure his semen. So is there anything he could do at home? We maintain a normal diet, he drinks plenty of water. No unusual supplements or anything.
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For three days my husband has been feeling giddy, he has to hold onto something when he walks otherwise he looks likes he's had a few. He's been sick once with it. He's been to GP who examined him and told him his BP was a bit high but when we got home his BzP was within normal range again. I think it was raised because we waited an hour in the surgery. Because he is a type 2 diabetic, the GP said it was connected to that and his raised BP. I know it's not his BP because it's always normal. His ears have been throbbing too but GP said no sign of infection. It seems he has to ride it whatever it is. Has anyone any idea what could be the cause please?
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I keep on urinating and I have some random pains in my pubic area, hips, testicles. The pain is very mild, like just pushing your thumb on your hipbone.
I keep on urinating, especially after drinking to glasses of water. In less than five minutes I have the urge to urinate. No pain and no discharge but my ejaculate is watery.
I also have this sore throat, my throat feels rough when I swallow on nothing but it doesn't hurt when I swallow food.
Is it possible that I got this from a handjob I got from a prostitute more than a week ago?
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I have been married almost 2 years.. When we first dated we had sex like crazy and both loved it, even with the guilt of people telling us we Weren't supposed to doing it unmarried. We felt guilty but still loved each other and loved sex. Then we got married, my husband started expecting sex and I started hating it. He doesn't expect it anymore, but is disappointed that we only do it like once or twice a month. He doesn't usually complain about it unless he's drunk. Then he gets kinda nasty about it. It just makes me hate sex with him even more. His touch makes my skin crawl. I HATE when he tries to kiss me, it makes me feel sick. I hardly touch him and I feel terrible because he thrives off of being touched. When we do have sex, I do it for him. I may orgasm, but just because my body is very aroused doesn't mean I am. I feel very disconnected. if my body wants it, Or orgasms, it feels like I am being betrayed by my own body. It's a terrible feeling. He thinks making me orgasm is a gift from him. Lol. But I keep telling him that just because my body enjoys it doesn't mean I enjoy it. I am torn. But he doesn't understand. He thinks I don't like him, since I'm withholding from him. So I encourage him to use his porn or magazines and toys by himself. I know it's wrong to encourage that, but if it gets him to leave me alone. Then it is a huge weight off my back. If I could have it my way, I would Never have sex. I would prolly still masterbate on my own, but never want intercourse. When we do have sex, I do it so he will be "content" for a while and feel satisfied. I feel guilty for not fulfilling my wifely duties better. During sex I have to have the lights off, or hide his face with a blanket. He has to be the one in charge and I have to think about anyone other than him. If I look at him or think about how I'm actually having sex with him again it ruins it and I have to get up and leave, because I can't go thru with it. He has never abused me, but I was sexually abused about 12 years ago, when I was 14. I don't really think about it. But I do feel disconnected from my body. When he touches any part of me, ( non sexually or sexually) I emotionally disconnect from that part of my body. When we have sex he says it's out of love, he tells me several times during sex that he loves me. I finally had to tell him not to say that while we are doing it. Because it makes me feel sick inside when he says it during sex. I think it's because to me, sex is not an act of love. It is something that makes the body feel good. For him it is an act of love. I can't seem to reconcile love with sex, to me they are 2 very distinct things that can never be combined. Has anyone ever experienced anything like this? Some advice would be great. I feel like I'm drowning and there's no way out.
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