I'm 16, and I've never been to the gynocologist before, so I don't know if this is normal. Ever since I can remember, when I pull back my hood, my clitoris hurts, and the tissue on the innermost part seems red and irritated. If I push on it when the hood isn't pulled back, it doesn't hurt as long as I don't put too much pressure on it. Is this normal?
View 4 RepliesThe top of my clitoral hood is swollen is the normal from masterbation it hurts like its raw ...
View 1 RepliesYesterday night, I was having a little fun with myself and noticed after I had finished my vagina burned to the touch. I didn't know if it was because I was too rough on myself or the friction from being rubbed had caused something.
The next day I realized the hood of my clitoris hurt and burned with touch. I went through my normal day but when I got home and took off my underwear, I realized there was a raw spot straight on my clitoral hood. I took an ice pack and cooled down the spot, but I don't know if I should do anything else to help it heal. I know it's not an STD because it started hurting the day after I had masturbated.
So today I took a mirror and really examined my lower region and I noticed my clit is covered fully by the hood. It's not embedded per say, but I have to use my fingers to expose it. I don't really get my feeling to if I rub it when I'm in the shower or something. Is there something I can do to ease the skin off or will I have to have it cut down?
View 14 RepliesTwo days ago I woke up and noticed that my clit hood was swollen. It does not burn or itch but it is just swollen. I'm not sure if its the soap that I am using that's causing an allergic reaction, yeast infection or over stimulation (masturbation). Do you know what I can do to get rid of my swollen clit hood?
View 1 RepliesFor as long as I can remember I have sexually stimulated myself by using the heel of my foot... it was only on my clitoris. I simply would sit "Indian style" and I would just rub the heel of my foot over my clitoris until I reached orgasm. I did it this way because it was quick and easy to me. It usually only takes me 1-2 minutes. But a part of me wonders if what I am reaching is a real orgasm. I am never wet during it. Anyway, my problem is.. I am 20 and my partner of 2 years is 40. When I am touched in any other way that isn't the way I know, I can't orgasm. We have been together for 2 years and he still can't make me finish.. I know it bothers him, he says it makes him feel like less of a man and has never in his life had that problem before. I am worried that from doing it for so long, 8 years or so, the way I have been.. I have desensitized my clitoris and now I don't know how to orgasm any other way. I have tried to do it on my own multiple times... Every time I am completely aroused and I feel like I am almost about to orgasm.. I can't. The feeling continues but I get stuck at the point of almost orgasming and it is the most uncomfortable feeling that I always have to say, "Stop, I'm done" Because the discomfort becomes unbearable. I just want to know what I should do from here.. if my clitoris is actually desensitized.
View 2 RepliesI'm sexually active with my boyfriend who we lost our virginities to. I haven't had another sexual partner and I'm on the depo shot and checked for STDs before each shot. But when I masturbate lately I've noticed I bleed I only rub myself above my clothes. Tonight when I got up I bled very heavily with abdominal pain which has never happened. And I don't start my period until the end of the month. This happens nearly everytime I masturbate just not as heavy bleeding.
View 1 RepliesI was using a vibrator the past few days and now there's a sharp pain in my clitoris when I move around or touch it. Will it go away by itself? I really don't want to go to the doctor for something like this.
View 2 RepliesI was just rubbing my girlfriend down there, and my hands weren't probably completely clean (I haven't really done anything like this before). I was mainly stimulating the clitoris, at times using her wetness to lube her up. She didn't seem to mind and at that time, she wasn't in pain or anything, in fact according to her she was enjoying it. After going back home though, she felt that the area around her clit became really sore and that it hurts horribly while trying to pee. It also itched when soap touched the area while trying to take a shower. It feels uncomfortable in general, and aches when trying to move. Most importantly, she says she has discovered some sort of a 'hole' beside her clitoris, which does not look like a scar, but is red. This has freaked us out both, and although I haven't seen the condition myself, I can't describe it more precisely. She says it's like the type of 'fold' we get when we apply pressure on our skin with the nails, except that it's round, tiny and deeper. She is also having pain in her tummy (in fact this happens when she masturbates too much) which makes it all the more worse. She is really mad at me and I know I have done something careless (especially when it is the first time we have been doing something like this), and I probably don't even deserve to be her boyfriend, but I feel really guilty and I want to help her in every way possible but I don't really know what to do about it. She hasn't spoken to anyone about it yet although she is suffering and all I care about now is that this condition goes away as soon as possible. She is not ready to go the gynecologist because she is too ashamed to talk about it as she is from a conservative family.
View 5 RepliesOkay so I'm 18, i lost my V card when i was 15 and well i don't know how to put this but for like the past 2 years every time i have intercourse i bleed and have symptoms of UTI like having to pee every 5 seconds and when i do it trickles, and not being able to hold it, i went to the doctor and they tested me for uti and it came back negative. But i figured it could be tearing, what really worries me is when i masturbate, when i masturbate i just use my vibrator on the clit till orgasm, but every time i do i bleed and it's not like i'm on my period bleeding it's more like spotting and its not bright red more like a red with a hint of brown but u can still see its red, and i have short nails so there's no possible way i could have scratched something. I would go to my doctor but that's like a 2 hour drive, and this has happening for about 2 years.
View 1 RepliesI find my energy changes dramatically whereby I can't focus on little things, I adopt an immature attitude to everything in general, and it's as if I am so much more turned on AFTER climaxing than I am beforehand. It is unpleasant to feel unbalanced like this just because of orgasming and I spend the majority of my sexual interest time trying NOT to climax because of how awful I feel afterwards, the actual climax is enjoyable but its the post climax destruction in my life that I have trouble with dealing with emotionally and physically afterwards. Example; this week I have had three near miss car accidents, hit my head and beien cut, fined for texting in the car, and the list goes on....I would consider a clitoral circumcision if only the procedure was legal that is what brought me to this topic searching for clitoral operation?
why isn't it talked about by other woman? I have been aware of this all my life and have tried to refrain from having orgasms just so I don't create the tidal wave afterwards. Is this why the African girls are circumcised at an early age, do they know something that we don't?
ok so a day ago i ended my period. today i masturbated again whatever. but i only masturbate with my clitoris. after i climaxed however i noticed something wet. it could have been my semen but i usually don't orgasm every time. so i look down and there is a pool of blood. it was everywhere i know its gross. im seriously concerned because i am still a virgin.
View 1 RepliesI've been having intense pain in my clitoral region. I used to think it was because of my frequent use of my vibrator. I have been to the hospital 3+ times and all of the checks have been negative. I had a urine culture done, a bacteria & yeast test and a test for stds. This problem has been occurring for 2+ years and I really need it taken care of but everything I try is not working.
View 1 RepliesJust wanted to get as many details in so hopefully someone can help me! I'm 18 and I've been having sex for two years now and still don't enjoy it. Its very uncomfortable and can be extremely painful sometimes. Before having sex I used to enjoy being fingered but even that just isn't pleasurable anymore. I've never really had a guy try oral sex on me so i cant really say whether i enjoy that. I realise that some women don't enjoy sex but most women in this situation do enjoy clitoral stimulation. There has been two occasions when this has been the case for me and it was amazing but both times we had to stop as we weren't exactly in the most private situations and i was getting a little loud. Other than these two times, which were both with different men who i had hardly any emotional connections to clitoral stimulation just feels like being touched anywhere else on my body. I've never been able to orgasm, not even with masturbation. I also don't have any trouble getting wet before sex. I'm with a really great guy at the moment who really wants to help, but i just don't know what to do. Is there anything we can do? is this going to be permanent?
View 2 RepliesI'm 17 years old and when i orgasm by clitoral stimulation i bleed from my vagina, the blood is bright red in colour. I'm a virgin so i'm worried that my hymen may have gotten damaged or broken.
View 5 RepliesEverytime i masturbate through clitoral stimulation i bleed. It's not a lot. But i'm worried because i don't know what it is wrong with me. I've been on depo for almost two years could that be the cause?
View 1 RepliesI am 31 years old single...I have clitorial discharge and it was on and off is it normal?or my hormonal imbalance?
View 1 RepliesI had had a lot of trouble orgasming.
One thing I have tried is holding a vibrator on my clitoris. This causes my legs to shake like crazy and I feel like I'm going to scream. It isn't painful, it just feels so strong, and I end up feeling overwhelmed, and pulling it away. I kinda worry I might lose control with screaming and moaning. What I wonder is what would be likely to happen if I continued? Would it lead to a massive orgasm? Or could it do damage to my clitoris?
If I hold the vibrator near my clitoris, such as on my labia or clitoral hood, it just isn't satisfying enough, if I leave it there for ages then it feels kinda good, but it doesn't really lead to any kind of build up, and I want it to be more intense. After about 10 - 15 minutes, my labia just feel numb and uncomfortable.
If it would likely lead to an orgasm to keep it on my clitoris and not pull it away, I wonder if i should use a strap on vibrator or clit-pump with vibrator so that I can keep it on and keep my hands away from it?
Or, what should I do? I'm really frustrated and I really want to be able to have orgasms, particularly given that I will eventually want to be able to enjoy sexual relationships without having to worry that I cannot orgasm.
I'm 25 by the way, a virgin.
I have been diagnosed with lichen sclerosus in addition to vulvodynia. My main symptoms are clitoral fusion and narrowing of the vaginal opening. For some reason I haven't been able to find a steroid cream that I could use that doesn't cause me a horrible vulvodynia flare (feels like my entire pelvis goes into spasm) and was wondering if anyone had alternatives they use that have helped with this symptom.
View 8 RepliesHello, I'm 15 years old(gay) I had sex about 3-5 days ago and 2 days after sex I felt discomfort in the urethra and the pain is bare able just comes and go like at least 10 times a day and I thought it was because of when I had sex I didn't ejaculate I precummed a lot so I masterbated and a lot of semen came out and I felt a like better but then It came back so I thought it was still like left over precum so I masterbated again and now it coming in waves everything works just fine just I feel like I have to pee a lot, please help!
View 1 RepliesI continued doxocycline more than two weeks 400mg per day for a rash on my face.Now I feels a discomfort of the penis with an slight enlargement and a pain.Is it an adverse effect of the drug?Should I stop the consumption?
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